The tantric domination coaching session with Kalyss Mercury is an experience I will never forget. I am a shibari artist that is taking her first steps in domming and the way that Mistress Kalyss combines tantric practices with her domination practice was jaw dropping inspiring to say the least!

I have always wanted to try pegging someone, so when the opportunity arose to explore this under the guidance of Mistress Kalyss, I was over the moon. She let me into her world in the most intimate way, leading the session with such poise and power, whilst at the same time taking the time to explain the things that she was doing in detail. I learned so much in this one evening, ranging from very practical things like how to tie the cock and the balls, to highly energetic/emotional aspects that can not even be explained, but can only be learned by being in the moment with her.

In the beginning of the session, she really took her time, never rushing for anything, and kept on reminding us all (and particularly the sub) to keep on taking big breaths. She really opened him up mentally, emotionally and physically. When it was time for sensation play, she invited me to join her. At all times when she invited me to join her in doing something, it felt really natural and I was feeling very comfortable the whole way through. I think that shows her experience in curating safe spaces for exploring BDSM, even when you’re doing things that are completely new to you.

When it was time to peg the sub, I felt so comfortable, as if I do this every day! It really helped that there was a tantric layer to the whole experience, as it ensured such deep presence in our bodies. The way of learning was completely embodied, not through some abstract explanations. I can assure you that from now on, this is the only way I want to learn! It was a million times more valuable to have this embodied experience, rather than learning in a more ‘brainy’ way.

One of my favourite things of the whole session was that there was space for a huge range of emotions, from pain to laughter, from extreme horny turn on to deep loving surrender, it was all welcome all held by Mistress Kalyss’ guidance and firm presence. I’m deeply grateful for everything I’ve learned and the best first pegging experience I could have dreamed of! Thank you Mistress Kalyss!